The Thursday Babbling

When Someone Come To Me For The Word Of Wisdom Or Advice Usually It Wrecks Or Unnerve Me.. Why? For One I Do Believe That If U Give One Bad Or Wrong Advice.. The Blame Will Be On You For The Rest Of Life.. Well That A Bit Exaggerating But U Catch My Drift.. And Secondly Im Easily Offended When I Have To Give The Same Advice Over And Over And Over Again Only To Find Out Your Advice Fell To A 'Deaf' Ears.. Seriously Why Seek Advices When You're Not Going To Take Anything From It.. Or If U Have Made Your Decision Already.. Chin Up And Admit It If You're Wrong.. Dont Come Back Crawling With Tears In Your Eyes Again And Again And Again And Said I Should Have Followed Your Advice.. Ah Well We're Human Are Just Like That "Membuang Masa Org Dan Suka Memperlecehkan Pikiran Dan Idea Org Dan Berpikir Yang Kitani Ani Hebat Dalam Segala Aspek Kehidupan".. One Thing I Know Is When You Have Too Much To Think.. Or When Life Is Getting The Best Of You.. You Just Cant See Things Clearly.. This Where You Need The People Whom You Trust With Your Dear Life To Help Guide You I.e Family And Friends.. And Thirdly What Insult Me The Most Is That When Our Advices Being Dismissed And Thrown Away Cheaply Because Its Not The Kind Of Advice You Like To Hear.. But Hey We're Getting Older By The Seconds.. THe Only Way For Us To Settle Our Problems Is By Facing It.. The Times Where An Ice-cream Or 'Keropok Udang' Will Fix Everything Has Long Left Us.. (Tho It Wouldnt Kill To Have One Right Now).. I Do Agree Though When It Comes To Your Heart And Feeling.. You Just Cant See The Bigger Picture And Obviously We Will Leave All Common Sense Behind For False Hopes.. Wishing For All The Fairy Tales To Become A Reality And Hoping For Miracles To Happen.. And When It Seems That Everything Are Not Going Your Way Or To What You Want Or Ask For.. We Shout And Wail With The Sound Of Despair Telling Everyone That Life Is Unfair.. Putting On False Smiles And Forcing Yourself To Wake Up Every Morning Just Because Of......? Whatever Reasons That Might Be.. You Should Take A Step Back And See The Bigger Picture.. Look And Check At Every Joints In Your Body.. Did You See Any Strings Attached To It? No! We're Human Not String Dolls.. I Do Believe That With Our Will, Our Beliefs And Our Faith That God Had Entrusted Upon Us.. That One Day We Will Actually Get What We NEED.. Not What We Want.. Now That Is Not False Hope.. Trust Me When I Say God Do Hear Our Prayers But Its Just Not Our Time Yet For It To Be Granted Or Maybe We Havent Done Enough To Deserve What We Seek For.. So If You're Out There Thinking That This Loneliness Is Pushing You Back.. Well Dont Be.. Because Along The Way You Will Find Someone No Matter How Long It Would Last.. Being Single Is Not That Bad.. But I Have To Agree There Are Times When You Think Having Someone To Turn Too, To Tall Too, To Share With, To Care For And To Love At Would Be Nice.. But Fair Enought You Just Have To Suck It Up And Ride It Out, So If You Have Feelings Towards Someone.. Doesnt Matter If You're A Man Or A Woman Express It.. Tell It To The Person About Your Feelings.. Trust Me Exploring That Love Feeling Together With Them Is Way Better Than Yourself.. And If They Dont Share The Same Emotion Dont Feel Bad.. At Least You Have To Move On Rather Then Stuck And Being Hold Back Year After Year.. But Hey Its Easier Said Than Done Obviously.. As For Me.. Its Scared Me To Death.. I Rather Showing Them That I Care For Them By Showing Lil Bits Of Pieces Of Hint That I Do Care.. And I Just Hope Along The Way That Plan Works.. DUMB WAY TRUST ME DONT FOLLOW IT!! Anyway What Im Trying To Say Here Is Only Us Ourself Can Make Our Life Better.. We Always Have The Right To Choose For Better Or For Worse On How To Live Our Life.. And Always Remember Our Worst Enemy Is Our Ownself.. Because The Only Thing That Can Hold Us Back From Not Achieving Our Goal And Happiness In Life Is OURSELF..

"Hujan Kemarin"

True To The Bone!
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