Being A Niceguy

So Does The Phrase Being A Niceguy Really Means You're Gonna Finish Last.. And Then There Is This Argument For And Against It Of Which Never Seems To Be Ending Anytime Soon.. But Then Again.. If We Think About It.. Its Not Really About Being Nice.. Its More About Being Nice And Not Letting Others Make Yourself Looks Like A Fool.. And The Way I See It All It Needs Is A Good Balance On Where You Have To Be Firm And Where You Put Your Guard Down And Just Be Nice..

A Friend Of Mine Use To Tell Me What His Mum Said To Him.. There Is Lot Of Bad & Mean People Out There.. Why Cant U Be A Nice Person.. It Always Easy To Be Mean And Bad People/Person But It Takes A Lot Of Character To Be The Better Person.. But Then To What Extend Really..? To Be Patience Even When Your Own Self Is Being Played, Exploited Time And Time Again? But Still Managed To Put A Smile After It Albeit Just A Fake One And Then Just Keep On Doing The Same Mistake Over And Over Again, Being Hurt Again And Then Masked It With A Plain Smile Because You're Believe In Being Nice Will Bring You Good Thing In The Future?

I Do Believe With The Phrase What Goes Around Comes Around.. Karma Is An Ugly Bitch When You Play It Bad.. As I Was Saying You Just Have To Put A Line Where It All Have To Stop And You Have To Show Them That I'm Not Gonna Roll Over And Quit Or You Will Not Have A Say In Me Anymore.. Yes I Will Make Mistakes But Life Is Always A Learning Process Of Which You Will Apply It Sometime Or Somewhere In The Future..

Im Telling You Guys.. There Are People Out There Who Will Takes An Advantage On You At Every Second If They Could.. They Will Play With Your Emotion Because They Know No Matter How Shitty They Made You Feel.. Tomorrow Morning You Will Always Be There Asking For More Shits From Them.. To Their Own Eyes You Are Is Just A Person Who They Can Take Advantage On So That They Can Feel Better About Themself.. Once They Feel Better They Kick U Out Like A Floor Mat.. Or To Put It Delicately.. A Punching Bag.. Sad But True..

So What Should We Do.. As I Said Earlier All We Need Is A Good Balance, To Know Where And When To Say Yes Or No.. Saying No Didnt Mean Ur Being A Jerk Just Because They're Calling You One.. Why? Because Unlike The Usual.. This Time Around They Couldnt Get What They Want.. Its Never Is Wrong To Be A Niceguy.. Sure We Met A Few People Out There Who Will Take Advantage Of Your Kindness.. People Who Play With Your Emotion As If It Didnt Worth A Bit Of Their Respect And Appreciation.. You Will Surely Meet More Of This Lot In The Future..

At The End Of The Day.. Its You And Yourself Who Is Responsible To Make Yourself Happy.. Give Respect And Expect None Back.. And Insya Allah You Will Earn That Respect.. Say Yes When You Know You Have The Ability To Do Or Give It And To Those Who Meant The World To You And When Doing It Makes Its All Worth While.. And Say No To Those Who Dont Appreciate You Because They Dont Deserve Your Attention Or Your Time.. And Insya Allah You Will Stop Cursing And Feel Sorry For Yourself For Being Such A Fool Every Single Night Before You Fall Asleep.. Then Maybe One Day When Someone Told You.. Nice Guy Finish Last.. You Will Smile And Said To Them Yes We Might Finish Last But We Will Last Longer In The Mind Of Those Who Appreciate Us :-)

TRue To THe BOne!

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